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Ice Camp 2009

Tuesday, January 27th, 2009

Magoo keeps complaining I haven’t posted lately.  I’ve been a bit busy.

We took the youth group (59 kids, 8 chaperones) to Miracle Camp  in Michigan this weekend for Ice Camp 2009 – an incredibly jam packed 48 hours of activity that is so frenetic I’m generally unable to function or speak coherently for a month following.  It is an incredible mixture of pure fun, getting to know new people, and intense spiritual introspection.  It is way cool, both literally and figuratively. 

We had a high of about 15 degrees this year, which was a great improvement over the past two years. 

Here are my personal highlights of the weekend.  As always, since I can’t be forced to think too much, they are not necessarily in any order:

  • It’s Magoo’s Senior year.  She has an awesome close-knit group of senior friends – a dozen or so guys and gals.  Nearly every one of them made it to Ice Camp.  It’s so neat to see the natural easy-going relationship they all have. 

  • DustMeister is part of that group.  But, because of the small problem of living in Singapore the last couple of years, he hasn’t been able to attend Ice Camp.  He is back home, and it was SO EXCELLENT to have him there.  Even though he failed to capture the gross banana consumption contest:

 

  • I was in a cabin with eight girls.  Six of them I had already known pretty well.  Two I had maybe only met once.  These two, Ali and Amanda, were hilarious, for real.  Amanda is non stop funny and incredibly sweet and competitive and inclusive.  And she says “for real” or “for real?” all the time.  I liked it so much I am going to start using it myself all the time, for real.  Ali is so much fun, so introspective, and so sweet.  And these best friends play off each other perfectly.  They added SO much to the weekend.  I plan on stalking them and making them be my friends forever, because I like them so much.  The cabin was full of girls with a wide variety of interests, activities, and friends, yet by the way they acted and got along, you’d have thought they’d all been rooming together for years.

  • Now that Emmy lives in our area, she got to go to Miracle Camp!  You’d think a girl that was at a new school, and attending a function she’s never attended before would kind of hang back and tag along with her cousin and good friends.  Not Emmy.  She met new people, did all kinds of activities, and became famous as the single girl on the epic broomball team.  It helped that she got kicked in the face, jumped up, and said “I’m fine.”  Guys totally respect that.  And, really, many women pay big bucks to get nice full lips.  One kick in the face and Emmy got that for free.  You’re welcome.

  • An excellent band named Hello Industry.  Check them out.  They were PERFECT!  Bud and Magoo make fun of me because I usually barely play my music loud enough to even make out what is playing.  But for whatever reason the louder the better at Ice Camp.  Hello Industry delivered.  Oh, and they spent endless amounts of time with the students, which was pretty awesome of them.  DustMeister even learned a few new bass techniques from them.  (Sorry, I didn’t get a picture of the band.)
  • Deep spiritual discussions.  What’s wrong.  What can we fix.  How can we do better.  These are the kids talking.  Teenagers.  Unbelievably impressive teenagers.

  • Our cabin was connected to another cabin, much like a hotel room has a locked door to an adjoining room.  Only the locked door in this case was half inch thick plywood witha vent in it.  It wasn’t such a good sound insulator.  Nor was the massive heating vent system that crossed through both rooms creating a nice megaphone sound amplifier between the two rooms.  The other room contained unseen, but not unheard, girls from a group unknown to us.  Instead of getting irked at the sound generated by the other cabin, our girls took advantage of it.  A completely impromptu round of VBS songs broke out between the two cabins one afternoon.  The other cabin sang “Jesus loves the little children”.  We sang “This little light of mine”.  They sang “B-I-B-L-E” and we sang “Zaccheus”.  Before it was over we’d moved onto Disney songs and the big finale of “So Long, Farewell” from the Sound of Music.  I can’t tell you how much fun that was.  We never saw or spoke to those girls.  But, we had a blast singing with them.
  • Watching two of our girls and one of our youth leaders beat an all guys team in 3 on 3 b-ball. 

  • One of our leaders taking our broomball team through an entire comical practice before their game.  It included drills and straight out of Braveheart speeches to the participants.  His final rallying call before their friendly church camp broomball game, you ask?  “Let’s never forget this MEN, and woman, WINNING IS EVERYTHING!!  Oh, and making money too.”  They lost.

  • Standing outside on a 15 degree snowy day in the middle of a massive field of white, watching at least 100 teenagers oblivious to the cold, sans iPods & cell phones & mind altering substances, have the time of their life throwing snowballs, burying each other in the snow, playing broomball, tackling each other and smiling non-stop for hours on end.

  • A speaker and worship session on Saturday night and renewed commitments to the Lord that make every second of work it takes to prepare for this weekend worth it a thousand times over.
  • Watching Da Kaff make snow angels in his shorts and t-shirt after playing basketball.  Magoo accused me of being evil because I goaded him into it by suggesting he was a wuss if he didn’t do it.  I suppose she has a point.  Nevertheless, he did prove his lack of wuss-ness, that’s for SURE:

  •  Smiles, smiles, and a few more smiles.  You can check out the whole gallery by clicking HERE

What a weekend.  Thanks to the Lord.  Thanks to those who prayed.  Thanks to the Miracle Camp staff, speaker, and band.  Thanks to the chaperones.  And thanks to the most awesomest group of high school students ever, for REAL!

My favorite 2008 (people) pictures, The Finale

Friday, January 9th, 2009

Just a few more.  Cross my heart.

That’s Bud above shooting off a homemade potato cannon.  The reason this picture pleases me so much is that it represents the great changes in Bud’s life in 2008.  And, knowing Bud, and his love for pyromania, I’d venture a guess that the moment above captured in stop motion forever might have been the absolute pinnacle of his year.  Look at his face, can’t you see the excitement?  Bud has always been a little understated.  Just like his sister.

This is a dude from youth group who was part of a group of guys who created a jump pit out of cushions in the barn.  Then they leapt (Is that a word?  Should it be leaped?) and dove and flipped into the pit.  I had trouble getting a clear picture, but I think this captures the moment pretty well.  What touches me about this is just the idea of young people we care about creating memorable life moments that we have had the privilege to be a part of.  We first launched the barn as a youth hangout some six or so years ago.  And I have pictures of young guys back then doing the exact same thing as this guy above was doing a few months ago.  Bud was among the group six years ago, but he had trouble clearing the couch… maybe because he was like 97 feet  shorter than he is now.

That there lovely gal in the middle is her Gracefulness.  It’s quite a nice picture I think, but why does it land amongst my favorites?  It’s because of what that there girl represents to me and our family.  Magoo has been good friends with Grace since, what, like 6th grade or so.  Thus, by proxy, the whole family has been friends with Grace.  But, in this past year, that friendship has stepped up a notch.  This usually stable young woman had a brain glitch and asked me to be her mentor.  I am unworthy, yet I’m thrilled she asked.  I’m certainly better for it.  And, Grace?  Well, with me as her mentor, and Magoo as one of her best friends, and her increased exposure to the oddities of my family this year – poor girl, we’re sorry, but you’re stuck with us now.  Seriously, though, SHE is one of the best things that has happened to US in 2008.

And, for the final finale favorite picture of 2008.  This proud papa and his little girl kinda like each other.  That is when they are not sacking each other’s chins and she’s not tattle-tailing on his late night snacking.  She has bionic ears.  It is annoying.

A wonderful autumn weekend – Part C

Monday, October 27th, 2008

We capped off an excellent Fall weekend with a very Fall thing to do.  We took the youth group to a corn maze.  It was a great afternoon.

It started with Emmy taking dozens of useless photos of things like this.  Huh?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

But I suppose she made up for it by taking some photos like this: 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I love the difference between Da Kaff and Magoo’s techniques for going down the slide.  He’s all guy and she’s all girl.

 

 

 

 

 

 

We did actually eventually make it into the corn:

It was a windy night, and it did weird things to the atmosphere, but it ended up being really pretty.  I was kind of dreading going out in the weather but was really glad I did.

The afternoon nearly ended on a bad note.  A couple of the the more troublesome youth group girls got completely out of control.  I was fairly certain they were going to be the victims of a horrific high speed crash.  Tragedy was narrowly averted:

Smokin’ Youth Group

Monday, October 20th, 2008

We had a bonfire with youth group last night.  Aren’t fall bonfires awesome?  Last night was a great evening for a fire except the smoke kept swirling and it was impossible to escape.  Oh well, I think everyone still had a good time.  Our friend, and fellow youth group leader Josh took these pictures.  He’s a professional photographer.  I started out the night asking him how I could get some good pictures on my own.  He was being really nice and started talking about lenses and aperture, and I was like appe-what?  And he said “You know…. I’ve got my equipment, how about I take some pictures?”  I high fived him, kissed his feet, and said “Yeah, sure, I guess if you insist.”  

Here’s SweetGuy – the A.D.D. smoke’s latest victim:

Can’t have a bonfire without singing.  Emmy, the reluctant singer, was coaxed into joining these two a few moments later because Steve was sick and his voice wasn’t holding up.  I had just told someone a few minutes before this that Emmy was an awesome singer but she’d never let on to the fact.  She’s been outed now.  Take that Em!

This is Daniel, a cool freshman, who is probably 5′8″ or so and weighs all of 120 lbs.  He must have eaten 5 hot dogs and umpteen smores.  Oh, to have that metabolism…

So, we’ve been making an effort to provide slightly healthier food to youth group this year.  What can I say, Little Debbie snacks may not be healthy, but they are cheap!  So please ignore this particular evidence contradicting our healthy initiative – Da Kaff consuming chocolate WHILE roasting a dog. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Things I like about this next picture:  The green light that isn’t really green in the real world.  Grace, just because she’s Grace.  And SweetGuy looks downright depressed.  I’m pretty sure it’s because the evil smoke and sparks are stalking him.

Things I like about this picture.  Teenagers are random, but well, helpful I guess?  And I love that you can see the stars in the sky.  I’m sure I could have taken a similar picture myself, but I didn’t want to show up Josh.  He’s a pro after all and I might have made him feel inferior.

If you are interested in additional awesomeness by Josh (and his loverly wife Amy) check this out:  http://photoblog98.com/

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Go ahead, try not to smile

Sunday, September 7th, 2008

Dan is a senior at U of I.  He was one of the first people to come to youth group at our house many, many years ago, when there were just a handful of kids and SweetGuy and I hardly even did anything with the group other than offer them a room in our house to meet (this was pre youth barn).  Dan is an all around fabulous kid… sweet, funny, caring, goofy, smart, hard-working, loves the Lord — all rolled up into one.  If I tried, I don’t think I could come up with one negative thought that has ever crossed my mind about Dan.

So, imagine my delight when I ran across the news on Facebook that Dan got engaged a day or two ago.  I don’t know anything about the engagement and little about his intended other than hearing him rave about her a time or two.  I don’t need to know anything in order to be completely thrilled for Dan.  Because, take a look at this picture below taken presumably moments after the engagement.  I’m fairly certain Dan is pleased.  I dare you not to smile when you see this picture…

 

 

In the dictionary

Wednesday, September 3rd, 2008

Whoaaa, you will not believe it!  I looked up encouragement/encourage in the dictionary (online of course) and look at what I found!

Isn’t that amazing?  I do believe that is a picture of our very own Grace in the dictionary!!  I have heard of this phenomenon, but never witnessed it myself.  I feel a brush with greatness.

Every once in a while you will hear some random person say something along the lines of “Teenagers are rotten.  They’re spoiled and ungrateful and selfish and…”  blah, blah, blah.  I have a feeling sentiments like this have been going on since Adam and Eve got old and cynical and their kids became teenagers.  Come to think of it, maybe they had a right to not be completely enamored with all their teenage children… I digress.  Back to my point.  This rotten teen thought process has been around forever. 

But, let me tell you, the idea that all teens are bad news is a thought I have never, ever, ever had in my life.  And for good reason.  I have had the amazing blessing in the last number of years of watching my own children and nieces/nephew grow into remarkable teenagers.  And, beyond that, I get to interact with their amazing, AMAZING, friends.  Grace is a perfect example.  She’s been a friend of Magoo’s for a long time and a member of youth group since she was a freshman.  I recall bugging her incessantly her freshman year to come to Miracle Camp winter retreat.  She gave in to my pick, pick, picking and I’m so glad she did.  I felt honored to begin to really get to know her that weekend and am so thrilled that her friendship with me and our entire family is still growing.  She’s staying with us this week while her parents are away.  Poor thing.  I bet she is counting the seconds until she gets set free from this crazy house!!

Grace has too many gifts for me to mention here.  But, as you can tell by her PICTURE IN THE DICTIONARY, she has an astounding gift for encouragement.  The girl builds people up naturally, effortlessly, constantly.  If I could, I would extend her sentence and make her stay with us longer.  It is all about me.  And I like having her around.

One more itsy bitsy thought on Grace…  Yes, Grace is encouraging, kind, hard working, fun, mature, respectful, yada, yada, yada.  She is also stinking ornery.  I have a habit of setting my glasses down places.  5′10″ Grace has a habit of setting said glasses on shelves I can’t reach.  Why don’t you just go home already, girl?

 

 

What I did with my evening

Sunday, August 24th, 2008

Tonight was a special event for youth group – Mud Volleyball!!  It rocked.

There’s Magoo above to the left.  She’s adding to her mud quotient.  The night was extraordinary.  We had 50-60 kids, great weather, awesome help from the church and parents, and made some memories.

There’s Da Kaff, Magoo, Debra, and Grace above.  Despite my attempt to come away from the evening mud-free, Grace made sure to get me at least a little muddy.  Thanks Grace… NOT!  NO MORE MUD FOR YOU!!

While it was an extraordinary evening, I sit here a bit stunned.  Why, you ask?  Because I have no idea how to categorize this particular “face” of Magoo’s below.  A little help please?  This is too much for a mother’s brain to soak in all at once:

 

 

Wait for it… it’s worth it….

 

 

 

Here it comes….

 

 

Prepare yourself…

 

 

 

 

 

 

To Be Expected

Monday, July 21st, 2008

Last night at youth group, we had a lot of new kids, so we handed out cards to collect some info on each student.  Magoo asked if she had to fill it out.  A reasonable question I suppose as it was basic info that the youth group leaders were collecting, and seeing as her Mom and Dad are the leaders, she didn’t think it was necessary.  I told her “Of course you have to fill it out” — because I get a kick out of grating her nerves.  We all do, really.  She responded by filling it out.  Here is a scan of her card:

I think her creativity must have peaked at “Dumb and Dumber”.  Ahem.  Go clean your room, Magoober.

Incidents like this remind me that things are a bit out of the ordinary for Bud and Magoo in terms of how their parents fit into their “worlds”.  We planet-hop over to their different worlds fairly regularly, which apparently is a bit unsettling at times.  I was giving DustMeister a lift today.  I mentioned “Did you know Hubert and Matilda (fake names, who would’ve guessed?!) broke up?  I saw it on Facebook.”  DustMeister let out a whelp and looked at me with wide eyes and jaw dropped.  I said, “Surprised, huh?”  He stammered “Well, about them, yes, but actually my reaction was because of how weird it was to just find that news out from you in this way.” 

Poor kid.  Apparently it’s a little creepy to find out about one friend’s breakup from another friend’s Mom who found out about it via Facebook.  Hey, I have Facebook only because of youth group.  Yeah, that’s it.  Only because of youth group.

Believe it or not, SweetGuy and I have tried to be sensitive about being over-involved in the kids’ lives.  Have we succeeded in our level of involvement?  Who knows, but according to Bud and Magoo, our involvement has been at times pretty cool, and a little irritating every once in a while.  I can appreciate their view, and at this stage of the game if they tell us to back off, we surely will. 

And, maybe I’ll stop passing Facebook info along to anyone younger than 21.  But, I draw the line at halting my stellar participation in Rock Band.  Those kids, they NEED me.  Speaking of which, at this very moment, DustMeister and Da Kaff are locked in a serious stint of rocking the guitar and drums…  and an odd – rather creepy in its own right –  falsetto singing voice for the song Mississippi Queen.  I swear, watching the concentration on their faces when they are locked into this game, is EXACTLY the same as watching Michael Jordan tear up the court… tongues and all.

 

The Worlds Collide

Tuesday, July 15th, 2008

I never watched Seinfeld much.  I thought it was a hilarious show but back in the day when it was airing first time episodes the kids were young, and we didn’t think its mature themes were appropriate viewing.  But still, what I did see, I thought was hilarious.  The episodes all seemed to center around some sort of quirky happening or thought, which albeit very, very exaggerated, most of us can relate to at least a tiny bit.  At least I could.

I recall one episode that struck a chord with me.  I don’t remember any details.  Matter of fact, maybe I didn’t even see the whole thing.  But, it had to do with George’s nervousness about his “World’s colliding”  -  he had compartments in his life that he wasn’t comfortable running into each other, such as his “dating” world and his “single” world.  I relate to this compartmentalized life idea.  Do you?

I have never intentionally kept my worlds apart.  Well, not too often anyway.  They just naturally stayed separate, mostly because everyone lived in different areas of the world.  SweetGuy’s extended family didn’t often get together with my extended family.  Our families didn’t normally particpate with our church/youth group friends and activities.  High school friends we affectionately call “The Gang” rarely saw these other worlds either. 

Man, all of the sudden, our world’s are colliding all over the place, and let me tell you, it feels kinda odd.  Not bad, not bad at all, excellent actually.  Just a bit weird.

                   Bud      DustMeister       Magoo       Emmy       The White Rose

  • I didn’t even realize the nieces on either side of the family had barely met.  How cool it was when they got to spend a few days together at our house last week.  No surprise here, but they got along immediately and super well.  After spending about a nanosecond together, it was delightful to see The White Rose and Emmy relaxing out on a blanket in the front yard talking music like they’d been friends for years.
  • Nanni got to see that thing we do with youth group a few weeks ago.  I know she loved what she saw.  It was special to have her witness first hand this majorly important portion of our life.  She even got into the act and made the kids tacos for our Mexican theme night.
  • Emmy, The White Rose, and Rach were part of youth group last week.  They fit in like they’d been there forever.  I’m hoping Emmy will want to be a part of it when they move here soon, but no pressure Emmy!  I’ll still let you cook and clean for me if you don’t participate in youth group.  I’m awesome like that.
  • Rach and The White Rose were totally into dodgeball last week, as were Emmy and AUBS! a few weeks earlier.  Rach’s technique definitely involved sneaking up on her prey.  It worked over and over again.  On me.  It was irritating.  I’d rather she not come back.
  • Despite the unfortunate circumstances, it’s been awesome to get to know so many of Mom & Dad’s special friends, and I think they us.
  • The kids’ friends, like DustMeister, Da Kaff, EL, Neil and Grace are fitting into all these worlds just fine. 

It’s not as if our various worlds have never touched before.  SweetGuy’s sister… I think we shall have to call her SweetSister was great friends with my brother (The Favorite) before I ever even knew SweetGuy.  My sister, the Neglected  Middle Child, was on the Pom Pon squad many years ago with SweetSister.  The special lady that’s been so awesome about commenting here, Robin, she’s been spanning our different worlds from way, way back.  So, yeah, there’s been little bits of mixing of worlds here and there, but not consistently.

Just speaking the truth here… these new happenings make me a little bit nervous.  I am apprehensive about someone in one world not liking someone from another world.  No, that’s not a good way to put it.  We care about all the different worlds so much, that I think it would hurt too much if they didn’t think as much of each other, as we do them, thus the apprehension.   Now that I’ve seen so many of them meet up in recent months, I have no idea what I was worried about.  It’s a heartwarming thing for me to watch.  I’m sorry we didn’t facilitate more of this before.  Mardy, a member of “The Gang” who we have gotten together with just about every weekend for the last 15 years read this blog today.  She stated surprise at learning things about my different worlds she’d never known before.  Definitely my bad.

I’m glad the world’s are combining.  Who knew.

Now for a teaser to my planned next post…. I am out of town and have time on my hands… you’ll want to tune into the first in an ongoing series:  The Many Faces of Magoo. 

 

The Integrity of Dodgeball

Thursday, May 8th, 2008

You learn a great deal about a guy/girl by watching them play dodgeball.  I don’t pay attention to how they throw, or leap, or dive — though those can be entertaining for sure — I pay attention to how they get out.  Or rather how they react to being hit by an opponents ball, and should be out.

Ever since the youth group has had access to a gym, dodgeball has become the default game of choice for the group.  Though not every single person in the group likes it, most of them do.  And with the high tech balls that don’t really hurt, just about anyone of any skill level can participate.  

There are basically two types of players — those who unfailingly call themselves out when they are hit.  And those who do not.   Man, do I have a ton of respect for those that do.  They will get whiffed by a ball where it will barely touch them and in such a fast game, they could easily say “Didn’t hit me” but they don’t.  They toss their ball and walk to the sideline — every time. 

The ones that don’t?  Well, they usually get hit, do a quick glance back and forth acting as if they are just watching for a throw to come at them from anywhere on the court, but in reality, they are checking to see if someone else witnessed the hit.  Sometimes the opponent will yell at the pretender ”You’re out!”  Pretender typically protests or pretends he/she doesn’t hear. 

I’m not here to talk about the Pretenders.  I am here to talk about the ones who are demonstrating integrity.  I’ll call them the Integriters.  Believe it or not, I just this minute made up that word.  Integriters would rather be honest than win.  Integriters would rather lose fairly than win unfairly.  Integriters value truth and trust more than competition.  This is not to say that Integriters are less competitive than Pretenders, because they are not.  I see lots of very competitive Integriters. 

These young Integriters and Pretenders (I’s & P’s) might not realize it yet, but they are setting the tone for their lives, even as they play dodgeball.  How do others view you?  Do they view you as a person of integrity, one who can be trusted, one who is honest?  Do you know it’s a documented fact that integrity and trust characteristics take the longest to establish in our relationships, and are the quickest to be torn down?   An I can become a P overnight, but never the other way around. 

There’s great reasons to be an Integriter.  Even in dodgeball.  Over time, even though its unspoken, players know who is an Integriter and who is a Pretender.  No one ever yells at an Integriter that he/she is out.  Maybe it’s a close call, but the Integriter isn’t questioned because everyone knows if he/she had gotten hit, they’d call themselves out.  But, oh, does it go way beyond dodgeball.  A person of integrity is more likely to succeed in their relationships, thus succeed in their overall life.  Lack of trust kills relationships.  Trust brings relationships to life.  Right or wrong, I have observed these kids and formed personal opinions about them.  Ten years from now if I happen to interview one of them for a job or, lets make the stakes even higher, one of them wants to have my daughters hand in marriage — I may not remember how they played dodgeball, but I will have a feeling about whether this person is overall the Real Deal, or not so much, and it may have all boiled down to how they played dodgeball. 

Awkward transition here, but not really.  Do you know what I love about the Bible?  It’s teaching is so right on and relevant to living in our world today.  Integrity is huge, right?!  One of my favorite verses in the Bible about integrity is James 5:12 which states “…. let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes’, and your ‘No’ be ‘No’…”  Don’t compromise.

By the way, in case anyone from youth group reads this, the reason I thought to post this today is because we had about 25-30 kids playing dodgeball last night and I was taken aback by how many Integriters I saw.  It was awesome. 

(We’ll call this post IF I WAS A MENTOR – Installment III)