Archive for August, 2009

DustMeister – a synopsis

Monday, August 31st, 2009

DustMeister moved in with us in January.  It’s a bit of a long story why, but in short, Dustin was a good friend of Magoo’s as they entered high school.  He hung around our family a bit and soon became a fan favorite of all of us.  When his family was transferred to Singapore after his freshman year, we talked it over as a family, and made the offer to Dustin’s parents that our home would always be open to Dustin.  And, he took us up on that over Christmases and summers.  After graduating early, he came to live with us this past January and headed to the local community college.

His arrival definitely raised the craziness level of our house a notch or four.  He took to our “make yourself at home” policy with gusto.  I knew this for sure one day when I came home from work and two teenagers I didn’t even know were playing video games in our rec room.  Dustin had invited them.  And, I was pleased he felt free to do so, but a bit dismayed too because, well, Dustin wasn’t home. 

A mantra often heard in our house this last year has been “That’s Dustin for you.”  The quirky eating habits, his ability to relate all aspects of life to video games, a desperate need for caffeine in the morning, and extreme perkiness at times of the day I naturally associate only with sleep.  That’s Dustin for you.  The guy is just such fun to be around, and so very funny and uplifting, that we just couldn’t help but relish and love his antics.

He gave us a moments like this one below on an hourly basis.  Here, inexplicably he is WAY excited about preparing to set off my camera’s detachable flash in his own face.  I dare you not to laugh.   

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We all couldn’t help cracking up.  Particularly after Dustin blinded himself and walked around with sunspots in his eyes for about 15 minutes:

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In the interest of full disclosure, I loved his antics MOST of the time.  As time went by, my inborn MOM neurons did start firing in the presence of DustMeister more and more.  I eventually subjected him to the Get Serious About Your Grades  talk, and the You Aren’t Actually Considering Going Out at This Time of Night ARE YOU  talk, and SweetGuy’s You Will Clean Your Room and You Will Present Me with a Business Plan and Gantt Chart for How You Intend to Complete the Task  talk. 

I may have gone just a smidgen too far when I posted the “Wash your dishes, or die” sign over the sink.  You think I’m kidding?  Nope.  But, hey, I was EXAGERRATING at least.  And I was threatening death to everyone, not just Dustin.  I believe in equal opportunity and I don’t think the request was unreasonable.

So, DustMeister was the first of the crew to move out a few weeks ago.  And, while I am going to be perfectly honest here and say that SweetGuy and I are for the moment relishing the quiet, we are also SO THANKFUL that we had an additional VERY awesome son for a season.  And for Bud and Magoo, a brother.  (Not to mention  all our cousins, aunts and uncles, grandparents and friends who love the guy as much as we do.)  

Thank you, Dustin, you will always be a part of this family.

Now, shouldn’t you be studying?  And, dude, put your dirty dish in the sink!

 

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Friday, August 28th, 2009

Once upon a time, the doctor said this beautiful lady would not live to be an adult.

Oh, my, was that dude wrong.

My mother hasn’t just lived to be an adult.  She has LIVED as if every single moment counts.  She is LIVING an incredibly full life.  She is as ALIVE as anyone I know, young or old.

And she LOVES and is LOVED so very much.

Happy Birthday Mom!!!

(Oh, and did FavoriteChild dedicate a blog post to you?  I think not.)

What a difference a week makes

Monday, August 24th, 2009

One week ago tonight we had a little going away dinner for Magoo.  Well, it was partially for Magoo and partially for everyone.  Because everyone is on the move.

Here’s a poor quality photo of part of the gang that night:

Don’t let that photo fool you.  These guys look sort of sedate here.  Sedate they were not.  A large part of the evening consisted solely of LOUD.  There was some sort of game going on where someone would reach their hands under and around someone elses arm with a quick clap of the hands.  If this move was completed successfully then the person was officially DISRESPECTED.  I guess.  Don’t ask me.  I’m as confused as you.  What I do know is that they were all constantly running (yes, literally) around doing it to each other and YELLING about it.  Did I mention it was loud?

On top of loud, it was just a great night of fun and all of us almost frantically trying to talk about all the goings on of the near future.  DustMeister moved out that night.  Magoo the next day.  Bud and AUBS! on Friday.  Grace will be gone within a week.  Wow, talk about slamming on the brakes of the pace of our life.  100 MPH to 2 before you can say empty nesters.

I’ve not been around this blog much of late.  First, I blame it on our vacation, and then I was busy throwing kids out of my home.  It’s a dirty, time consuming job.

I’ve a lot to write about each one of these kids taking flight and our experience with a cleaned out nest, but I want to give these subjects the word count they deserve on an individual basis, so I won’t cover them in this post.

It’s REALLY quiet around here, but (don’t tell the kids) I think I might be able to get used to this.  Quiet, clean, a fraction of our old laundry and food bills, free to do whatever I want, whenever I want.  No laying awake at night wondering what time a child will get home.  No coming home to photoshoots with a bush named Pete or boys catching arrows.  

AND.  Guess what?

I’ll tell you what.  With all the new-found calm, I’ve happened upon this very nice guy living in my house who labels himself HUSBAND.  He seems nice and I believe I might just be attracted to him.  Maybe we could go to to a movie or grab a cup of coffee.  My calendar has just opened up.  Yeah, I think I might be able to get used to this.

I will be back

Monday, August 17th, 2009

So, we went to Tennessee on vacation last week.  It was excellent and I’m anxious to put some pictures up on here.

I thought I would blog while I was there, but it turned out I was too busy.  Very busy.  There were naps to take.  In my usual over-achieving way, sometimes I took more than one nap a day.  There were books to read.  And, there was Rock Band and Mario Kart to play.  Oh, and sitting on the deck staring out at the incredible view absolutely monopolized my day. 

What’s a person to do?

Her Gracefulness even threatened to yank my domain registration again for lack of posting.  But, alas, I couldn’t pull myself away from the lazy boy.  It needed me.

In the next few days, DustMeister, Magoo, and Bud will move out and I will have more free time on my hands than I have experienced, ah, EVER.  Thus, once I get caught up on naps, I will plan on posting again regularly.

Please stay tuned.

Ellie is in the building

Thursday, August 6th, 2009

So as you might have read earlier, I’m a bit worried about things of interest I might find to post about come two weeks from now when almost all the kids in our lives leave us.  You should be worried more than me.  You may soon be reading about such incredibly exciting things as what we’ve eaten for breakfast, or how many times the dog barked at a passing car.  Woo Hoo!  I am on pins and needles myself.

Thankfully, I still have a backlog of fun things to write about, and the cue lengthened considerably this past weekend.  All of my side of the family was able to find about an 18 hour window where we could be together at FavoriteChild’s place in Wisconsin.  I was initially worried we were trying to fit a round peg into a square hole by even trying to make this weekend work.  There were just so many different commitments and agendas to accommodate, I wondered if it was worth the trouble.

I’m so glad there are smarter people in this family than I.  And people willing to be flexible with their schedules.  Because, as a person who is not very good with words, I can’t possibly describe how wonderful this past weekend was.  But, I will try to hit on some of the major points.  Here goes:

  • Elpis (Ellie!), the young foal, was a mere 36 hours old and was a wonder to behold.  Really.  If we had done nothing other than watch this little girl the entire weekend, it would have been totally fulfilling.  Here she is, all legs, a bit awkward on her feet still, and as cute and beautiful a creature imaginable.

  • Elpis’ Mama, Salvana, is an amazing being.  She is 1,800 lbs. (did you comprehend that?  1,800 POUNDS.   I seriously have had cars that weighed less than this.  I probably shouldn’t be writing an entire paragraph enclosed in parenthesis so I will stop now) of power, grace, and gentleness.  And, she is an absolutely perfect mother.  Look at her here below.  She did not leave her child’s side and was ALWAYS vigilant to anything that posed the smallest threat to her baby.  I have no doubt, were a true predator to come on the scene, Salvana would have given her very life in an instance to protect her offspring.  NO DOUBT.

Honestly, I could relate to Salvana.  I don’t think there is anything I have ever felt that has run deeper, and more ingrained in my very being than that of being a mother.  It’s an unstoppable force.  Sorry, kids, when that protective instinct comes out it is as if I can not physically keep myself from stepping in and protecting as I see fit.  Poor DustMeister has had to endure some of this lately. 

And, you know what’s funny, I know that EVERY mom that reads this post can relate to Salvana, and to me. 

Look at this picture below. 

You know that I love to take photos, and I’ve captured a few that I think are special, at least to me.  At first glance the photo above might not seem to fit into the elite category.  But, look closer (click on the photo itself to make it larger and focus on Salvana’s eyes) and you’ll know that it does.  Salvana has had six babies and two are no longer with us.  Nanni had 4 babies in 5 years and never complained.  Salvana is a Mom of a newborn and feels the pain and anxiety.  Nanni is just starting to make her way on her own without her husband of 51 years.  Do you see it?  Do you see these two exceptional ladies communicating ALL this and more to each other and SUPPORTING each other?  I do.  And I am thankful for a Mom, and a horse who is  a Mom, and that they can communicate to each other and be there for each other. 

Salvana and Nanni, they are so alike.  And, trust me, that is a compliment – a SUPREME COMPLIMENT – to them both.

Ok, then.  I’ve lots more to post about this weekend.  Here’s a slide-show if you would like a sneak preview:  http://www.flickr.com/photos/wonderfultoday/sets/72157621824312015/show/

Things are about to change

Tuesday, August 4th, 2009

In a few weeks, SweetGuy and I will be empty-nesters.

People ask us how I think we’ll feel about this and I pretty much tell them I have no idea, because it’s really hard to conceive the possibility.  Just SweetGuy and I?  Him and I, alone?  The two of us?  It is hard to fathom.  Here are the comings and goings of today — not an abnormal summer day in our household.

As of midnight last night, the inhabitants of the house were just the five of us normal residents.  Here’s a little equation of the comings and goings today:

SweetGuy + Me + Bud + Magoo + DustMeister

- SweetGuy

- Me

- Magoo

+ Magoo

- Bud

+ Bud

+ UPS Guy

- UPS Guy

+ Me

+ Grace

+ AUBS!

- AUBS!

+ DustMeister Sibling 1

+ DustMeister Sibling 2

+AUBS!

+ Da Kaff

- Magoo

- Da Kaff

- Me

- Grace

- DustMeister Sibling 1

- DustMeister Sibling 2

+ Joel

+ Da Kaff

+ SweetGuy

+ Me

+ Magoo

+ Emmy

- Joel

+ SingingSally

+ AUBS!

- Emmy

- SingingSally

- AUBS!

- Da Kaff

- DustMeister =

SweetGuy + Me + Bud + Magoo

 

And here is what the equation will supposedly look like on a typical day in a few weeks:

 

SweetGuy + Me

-SweetGuy

- Me

+ Me

+ SweetGuy =

SweetGuy + Me

 

I can’t even imagine. 

 

(However, I CAN imagine not washing dishes 8 times a day or doing 1 item of laundry of mine for every 54 of Magoo’s)

 

 

 

 

 

Ding Dong Ditch

Saturday, August 1st, 2009

SweetGuy, Bud, Magoo, and I were hanging out in the living room settling down for the evening. 

Surprisingly, there was a loud, quick, sharp knock on the glass door.  Berzerker barked and went crazy.  As SweetGuy headed towards the door, we saw lights and heard a vehicle peel out of our driveway.

Upon investigation, to our COMPLETE surprise, some people who wish to remain anonymous had, beneath our very noses, replaced our gazebo furniture.  They decided our (pictured) hand-me-down circa 1973 picnic table could stand to be replaced.

This was one of the coolest things anyone has ever done for us…. the gift itself, the total surprise, the secret agent method of gifting.  We felt incredibly special, and even more so after we called the offenders, made them come back and we all sat on our new furniture talking, laughing, and eating until way past our bedtimes.

I think people should give us gifts more often.  It’s rather enjoyable.

Oh, and our cats are VERY grateful too!

Thank you to the crazy people that did this.  The furniture is awesome, and the gesture and memories of the evening are even more so.