DustMeister moved in with us in January. It’s a bit of a long story why, but in short, Dustin was a good friend of Magoo’s as they entered high school. He hung around our family a bit and soon became a fan favorite of all of us. When his family was transferred to Singapore after his freshman year, we talked it over as a family, and made the offer to Dustin’s parents that our home would always be open to Dustin. And, he took us up on that over Christmases and summers. After graduating early, he came to live with us this past January and headed to the local community college.
His arrival definitely raised the craziness level of our house a notch or four. He took to our “make yourself at home” policy with gusto. I knew this for sure one day when I came home from work and two teenagers I didn’t even know were playing video games in our rec room. Dustin had invited them. And, I was pleased he felt free to do so, but a bit dismayed too because, well, Dustin wasn’t home.
A mantra often heard in our house this last year has been “That’s Dustin for you.” The quirky eating habits, his ability to relate all aspects of life to video games, a desperate need for caffeine in the morning, and extreme perkiness at times of the day I naturally associate only with sleep. That’s Dustin for you. The guy is just such fun to be around, and so very funny and uplifting, that we just couldn’t help but relish and love his antics.
He gave us a moments like this one below on an hourly basis. Here, inexplicably he is WAY excited about preparing to set off my camera’s detachable flash in his own face. I dare you not to laugh.
We all couldn’t help cracking up. Particularly after Dustin blinded himself and walked around with sunspots in his eyes for about 15 minutes:
In the interest of full disclosure, I loved his antics MOST of the time. As time went by, my inborn MOM neurons did start firing in the presence of DustMeister more and more. I eventually subjected him to the Get Serious About Your Grades talk, and the You Aren’t Actually Considering Going Out at This Time of Night ARE YOU talk, and SweetGuy’s You Will Clean Your Room and You Will Present Me with a Business Plan and Gantt Chart for How You Intend to Complete the Task talk.
I may have gone just a smidgen too far when I posted the “Wash your dishes, or die” sign over the sink. You think I’m kidding? Nope. But, hey, I was EXAGERRATING at least. And I was threatening death to everyone, not just Dustin. I believe in equal opportunity and I don’t think the request was unreasonable.
So, DustMeister was the first of the crew to move out a few weeks ago. And, while I am going to be perfectly honest here and say that SweetGuy and I are for the moment relishing the quiet, we are also SO THANKFUL that we had an additional VERY awesome son for a season. And for Bud and Magoo, a brother. (Not to mention all our cousins, aunts and uncles, grandparents and friends who love the guy as much as we do.)
Thank you, Dustin, you will always be a part of this family.
Now, shouldn’t you be studying? And, dude, put your dirty dish in the sink!
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Upon investigation, to our COMPLETE surprise, some people who wish to remain anonymous had, beneath our very noses, replaced our gazebo furniture. They decided our (pictured) hand-me-down circa 1973 picnic table could stand to be replaced.